19 Sep 2007
The Dangers of Paid or Anonymous Sex
I really can’t talk about paid sex, except by exercising my imagination, because I never had such experience in my life, and I hope to stay just like I am right now regarding this matter. However, it is not hard to imagine that money is just a detail, and the same rule that apply to the latter applies also to the former.
It wouldn’t be rational trying to summarize in a short article every reason one could look for anonymous sex, but assuming I am writing for my personal blog, a few points must be enough.
I think there are three kinds of people who pursue anonymous sex: those who see themselves as so ugly an unattractive that they would never conquer anyone else’s heart; those who have stable relationships, but are still addicted to anonymous sex; and those who only have anonymous sex, despite how handsome or sexy they could be.
People who pursue anonymous and trivial relationships are supposed to find, in a general manner, other people who are searching for the same. It’s logic. What those individuals do not realize is: there is more than just physical fluids being exchanged in a kiss or a sexual intercourse; there is more than just STDs risk, or an undesired pregnancy (even though I think this is a very important subject to think about).
I am also not going to talk about religious or moral values, like the strength of the family, fidelity or loyalty; if I went for this path, I would have to say that only married heterosexual people who have sex only for procreation are the only ones who don’t go to hell. Bullshit.
When one seeks for anonymous sex, finding other sex addicted person (assuming we’re talking about a bed for two), both will be exchanging energetic fluids, desires, moods, values. I’m not going to talk about disincarnated souls that when incarnated were themselves sex addicted, and now vampirize incarnated individuals. I am talking about feeding a vice, strengthening it.
People who are keen about impersonal sex seldom realize they suffer from such a kind of disequilibrium. They seldom perceive how the obsession for sex (many times despite the wife/husband standing by at home) affects their professional, social and familiar aspects of life.
I am not going to suggest “treatments†here, but I would certainly recommend self-evaluation, every single day, and self esteem above everything. When one realizes the difference between humping and making love, the former doesn’t get any space anymore. But one just can make love if one has love for him/herself in first place.
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It´s a real problem that people do not realize! I Always reomend my consulents to reconsider the relationships that they have. Because love is one of the ost importante things in life.
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